Who Pays for What in a Wedding

Who pays for what in a wedding? Planning your wedding and reception is made simple when you understand who traditionally pays for what. Avoid akward conversations with your future-in-laws by understanding who is responsible for paying for what. Here is a quick reference but always remember that weddings are expensive and are tough on everyone's pocketbook.

Bride	Groom
Gifts for groom and bridesmaids Groom’s ring Hotel or accommodations for bridesmaids traveling from out-of-town	Bride’s engagement and wedding ring Flowers (corsages and boutonnieres) for all in the wedding party Gifts for the best man, groomsmen, and bride Marriage license Tuxedo’s/attire for all men in the wedding party Honeymoon
Bride's Parents	Groom's Family
Wedding Reception, including: Wedding cake Photographer/videographer Wedding invitations, cost of printing and mailing Bride’s wedding dress and accessories	Their own expenses travelling, clothing, accommodations, etc… Wedding gift for the newly weds If applicable, rehearsal dinner
Other Wedding Party Guests
Guests should pay for traveling expenses, wedding gift, and their own wedding attire. Bridesmaids are responsible for a wedding gift for the married couple. Maid of Honor is responsible for planning the wedding shower with the assistance of the mother of the bride.	Groom's men are responsible for the bachelor party and a special gift for the groom. The best man is responsible for planning the bachelor's party and should help the groom with any extra help for planning the honeymoon and any special handling of the newly weds car.